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My books are not fixed.

I write from my life.

Sometimes I remember a conversation years later.
Sometimes I see a past event differently.
Sometimes I realise a scene ended too soon.

When that happens, I return to the book.

I add.
I edit.
I delete.

If I make a substantial change, I let you know.

Printed books are fixed.

I publish online.

The books continue to grow.

While your subscription is active, you receive every update and every new edition.

Any files you download are yours forever.


The What Women Series

Marriage.
Motherhood.
Sex.
Exhaustion.
Power.

Collected essays from SHEHOLDS 她拿著.

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Sydney.
Hong Kong.
Canberra.
Paris.
Bordeaux.
Porto.

Marriage.
Children.
Travel.
Sex.
Grief.
Laughter.
Power.

A daughter born in one book grows older in another.
A city visited in one essay appears again years later.
A conversation remembered in one book returns somewhere else.

The same life spans all of them.

Notes from Lai Yin

Every week I publish a new essay.

Sometimes it is about food.
Sometimes it is about daughters.
Sometimes it is about marriage, travel, driving, grief, ageing, dogs, airports, or finding home in a new country.

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